Sometimes that works but for the most it does not and if it does it turns out to be a one way street, and this is not fair to you the submissive.If you just give and give and get nothing in return, what do you really gain?This will help you see things more clearly, and it just may help you understand your own little world. The difference between the two is a huge difference.If your filling up the two last then something is wrong, and then and only then should you start to question yourself. You as the submissive has the right to speak up when things are not going as planned.
If is up to you for the most part keeping yourself in that submissive mode.
Most how ever do not think about the 30 days of submission until they have already entered the relationship.
You have to get just as much out of the relationship as your new Dominant.
This is probably one of the most important things you need to learn.
If you are asked a DIRECT question you need to give a DIRECT answer.
Picture a piece of paper with three lines going down.