Chances are you will meet some wonderful – and not so wonderful – men during your journey. He admits to having several children with various women. (especially if there are young children involved.) Dating Red Flag #5 – Where Does He Live?Your responsibility is to know exactly what you want in a man and to keep your eyes open for potential red flags. He spends money frivolously and likes to flash wads of money. You have been dating for a month or two and he has yet to articulate what he does for a living. Questions to ask yourself: Were the mama’s pregnant at the same time? You just find out the man you have been dating is living with his mom or in his sister’s basement.He tells you that you are doing it the wrong way or that things you are interested in are stupid.
When some women are faced with a husband leaving them for another woman, one of the things they question is their own sex appeal and attractiveness to men in general.
He may also be jealous of the time you spend with your family, friends or children. You have made plans for him to meet your family or friends a few times.
Questions to ask yourself: Does he have a reason to be jealous? At the last minute he always cancels because “something came up.” He gives you hundreds of excuses as to why he is afraid to meet them or cannot meet them.
Does his jealousy control where and when you go out? Questions to ask yourself: Is he afraid they will not like him (or see his true colors? He has met your family and friends and none of them have anything good to say about him.
) Is he trying to control you by alienating you from family and friends? It is important to remember that they love you and truly want you to be happy.
Since you were a close male friend it was natural for her to feel comfortable with you and to see her value in your eyes.